There was an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit. “Such bad luck,” they said sympathetically.
“Perhaps,” the farmer replied.
The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses. “What great luck!” the neighbors exclaimed.
“Perhaps,” replied the old man.
The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune.
“Perhaps,” answered the farmer.
The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son’s leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out.
“Perhaps,” said the farmer…
I love this. It is such a wonderful reminder that no event is the be all and end all of life as we know it. Don’t dwell on the tragedies, and don’t get attached to the seemingly positive. True control comes from realizing you have none.
“Step by step the longest march
Can be won can be won
Many stones can form an arch
Singly none singly none
And by union what we will
Can be accomplished still
Drops of water turn a mill
Singly none singly none”
I heard these words sung on the radio today, and I’m trying to decide how I like them. My first thought is a resounding “Amen!” There is truly nothing that we “singly” can do. Without the sun, without the earth, without our fellow creatures, and our fellow man. We are all interconnected, and we can all band together in love to make the world a better place.
But then a rebellious thought rushes in. What if I don’t care for marching, and would rather sit by the stream? What if I’d rather be a rolling stone than a stone in an arch? What if I am a drop of water that doesn’t want to “turn the mill?” What if my aim is to evaporate, join the cirrus and float about in a wisp of white?
So, do we take the path of cooperation, or individuality? Is there a middle ground between oneness and autonomy?
Too Many Choices
I cannot make up my mind
I’ll let you decide
“Do you want to improve the world?
I don’t think it can be done.
The world is sacred.
It can’t be improved.
If you tamper with it, you’ll ruin it.
If you treat it like an object, you’ll lose it.”
If you’ve watched any movies or read any books that involve time travel, you will know that there are certain issues to bear in mind when visiting the past. Don’t go see your past self, don’t allow yourself to be seduced by your grandmother, thus becoming your own grandfather (Its not your fault, you didn’t know) and most importantly, don’t try to change things. Any little change you make can cascade into devastating consequences, up to and including flying baboons, early apocalypse, and the Nazis winning World War II. In fact, its really best not to touch anything. If there is one thing your friends will never let you live down, it’s damaging their favorite timeline.
Now I would like to tell you, if you can believe it, that I am a time traveler (Albeit in one direction, and at a slow and constant speed). I am in fact living in the past of the future, and far be it from me to bring on a plague of killer robots by selfishly trying to change things.
Far too many people treat the world as an object for their own entertainment and satisfaction. Using it. Abusing it. Wringing it out until it gives up the last drop. Take a step back. Let the world be. Preserve the future’s past.
“I’d love to change the world
But I don’t know what to do
So I’ll leave it up to you”
~Ten Years After
Eddies in Space-time
are bending the universe
The sofa is gone
“Stop thinking, and end your problems.” ~Lao Tzu
We live in a beautiful world. Even the small segment that our senses can take in (smaller still what our minds can comprehend) is beyond what we can express with words. There are infinite opportunities for joy, yet we use so much of our time fretting over the insignificant; the non-consequential. We fill our days with worry and busyness, trying to get ahead. We constantly occupy our minds with television and social media, afraid to sit in silence, and be alone with ourselves. Trying to drown out and silence the voices of fear, regret, and uncertainty.
Stop worrying. Stop thinking. You are on the right path; the only path; your path. Follow it to the end. Take care with each step. Feel each breath. There is no need for fear. You are a passenger, an observer. Enjoy the ride.
“When I see people stopped in traffic, in the check-out lane at the store, or walking down the street, I like to visualize their bones. It helps me remember that, no matter how different we are, deep down we are all the same.” ~My Chiropractor
No one wants to fail. No one wants to be miserable. No one wants to be depressed. No one wants to have acidic relationships. Everyone is doing the best they can with what they have been given. We all have dreams. We all have vision. We all have aspirations. We all have a past, and we all have made decisions we regret. We all have a spark of greatness, we all have passion, and we all have hate. We all have secrets. We all have scars. Each of us is different, but we are all the same.